Find kinky women in Boston

I'm looking for friends first and see where things go, i want to explore my kinks and experience new things too, serious men who really wanna meet and explore their kinks, dominate, submissive. I can switch. I have a nice fluffy ass too, HMU
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a special woman for a special man. I am a woman who can create comfort. My partner will always be in a hurry to return home. And of course, I'm a real woman who loves kisses and hugs. I am a woman who will make you feel the real taste of this life! I am a loving, cozy and gentle woman who knows what a man really needs! It is important for me to have a cozy and happy atmosphere around me. Do you feel that I am the woman of your dreams?
Female (50) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a woman who is ready for true love and a harmonious relationship. I am faithful, sensitive and open. I always support those who are close to me and believe in the power of sincere care and mutual understanding. I value emotional intimacy, shared goals, and a desire to grow together. The ideal relationship for me is one where there is mutual support, care, understanding, and genuine interest in each other. I believe in a partnership where both feel important and loved.
Female (53) Boston, Massachusetts
I consider myself a warm-hearted woman with a relaxed and cheerful demeanor, always ready to embrace life's little moments with a smile.
Female (42) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a woman who believes in the power of tenderness, honesty, and meaningful connection. I have a soft heart, a passionate soul, and a curious mind. I love classical music, good conversations, long walks, and the beauty of small moments. Life taught me to be strong, but I still dream about true love the kind that feels safe, deep, and joyful. If you're a caring and sincere man, maybe you're the one I was meant to find.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
silly puppygirl looking for an owner! i’m a film student and a huge nerd as well—a big fan of marvel, dc, star wars, and hannibal. say hi please!
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
Shy, awkward over text even more awkward in person. Not looking for anything serious but would love to smoke and watch some scary movies. I’ve only been with women so I’m looking to explore, I don’t have experience with men so if you’re not into that we’re not compatible. New to kink but interested in being submissive and some other dynamics. if you’re patient and willing to guide hmu 5’1
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
If you’re not the type who shows initiative, don’t bother. I like things my way: a little attention, a little priority, and someone who doesn’t whine when I expect… extra. If you’re the kind who gets flustered trying to keep up and still offers that quiet little devotion, then maybe you won. I’m a domme, not into other doms no you won’t change that. I only like losers who fantasize about being humiliated and degraded and wish to worship the ground I walk on and kiss the bottom of my feet.
Female (20) Boston, Massachusetts
Looking for new friends and connections to explore and hopefully meet down the line. I'm somewhat anxious so I'm easing into this gradually, keeping it on the app until I feel comfortable to open up.
Female (29) Boston, Massachusetts
Beautiful, hard-working, resourceful degradee. She enjoys being called a worthless piece of trash wholeheartedly if you get the vibe (once the consent and relationship has been established). Needs a ‘motivator’ who can give her a lot of structure so she continues to break the habit of getting caught up in details, and who can also be empathetic and patient. She needs someone who approaches life with a sense of fun because she is a performing artist, world traveler, and social butterfly. She has achieved a master's degree in international development but left that to work for herself as a small business owner. She is in a life chapter of breaking away from a repressed mindset and some conservative values for women. She is currently under protection from a dom she doesn't play with but respects very much. She needs his blessing to engage in a dynamic, however he will not interfere with your orders once she agrees to submit. Being new to kink, she thinks she needs a partner who will work on the basic building blocks of a dynamic before eventually getting into more intense kinks, which at this time are somewhat undefined, but she would like to be rented out eventually if you can be so selfless. Turn on’s include handing over control which could look like you having her nudes and posting them. Body preferences: larger men since she is 5’6’ and likes to feel smaller. So ideally 5’11” and built out, ages 27-40. Communication skills are highly important as she likes to role-play and write. They are also important because she is coming from relationships where communication was manipulative, so she desires a dynamic where the norm set by the dom is explicit and direct, particularly for negotiations.
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
not actually ur mommy. just building the harem of my dreams. Earnestly looking for service oriented individuals who are interested in being domesticated. lifestyle/service subbies to the front. I don't care about your kinks. looking for a connection outside of sexual intimacy. I have zero tolerance for anyone disrespectful or inconsiderate of my time. Tell me what submission means to you or maybe a secret you've never told anyone. I won't respond to "hey" and I'm not looking for online only relationships. "Doms" DNI bonus points if your name is Stephen
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
Open minded, silly and very blunt. Mainly going with the flow (don’t ask for pics I will block yah💋) My Minimum requirements are: worship. Anything less? Keep moving—I’m a brat so if you can’t tolerate it , don’t bother texting me. (If you want feet pics they won’t be for free💸)
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
hi, I’m an experienced dominatrix and I’m seeking a loyal submissive willing to serve me forever if you’re not a submissive please don’t reach out
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
only message if you also genuinely believe women shouldn’t have rights & are sex objects to serve men I’m a inferior white girl I want to be in a BBC gangbang hypnotized and or drugged 24/7 need to be ***ed and pimped out no shame or anything but a desperate easy whore add me on snap or insta if you’re interested snap ccoller9 insta is badluckcharli3
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I want to be used by a dom, master or daddy who dominates me. 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 "Male authority" and "consensual misogyny" turn me on a lot
Female (44) Boston, Massachusetts
Hey :) We're ideally looking for someone with a big cock who is willing to show me a good time while my husband watches/listens 😉 There are boundaries. If you're curious, feel free to ask. We are very new to this lifestyle, so we do take our time when selecting someone. I (female) mainly run this page, but my husband does see everything. Be respectful & maybe we can have some fun 🤭
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
Experienced lifestyle Domme accepting new subs. Don’t call Me Mistress🚫 I’m sadistic and love intense impact play. No online play- so live local to Boston and willing to travel to Me. My dynamics are based in denial so don’t message if you’re looking to hook up or get off. I require all subs to buy a drink/cover dinner/bring a gift. Be available to meet at least once a month in Boston. Only interested in talking to subs who educate themselves on kink and don’t just rely on 🌽 for kink education-know the basics like RACK SSC, FRIES, scene negotiations, aftercare, etc. Looking for subs who can host.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts
just looking to meet people with similar interests. it will probably never be a real life in person thing, I'm timid and shy and it's too dangerous out there. pet ***ve: do NOT invite yourself to "my place". I most likely will never ever meet you in person as it is.
Female (49) Boston, Massachusetts

New members in Boston

I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a woman who is ready for true love and a harmonious relationship. I am faithful, sensitive and open. I always support those who are close to me and believe in the power of sincere care and mutual understanding. I value emotional intimacy, shared goals, and a desire to grow together. The ideal relationship for me is one where there is mutual support, care, understanding, and genuine interest in each other. I believe in a partnership where both feel important and loved.
Female (53) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a woman who believes in the power of tenderness, honesty, and meaningful connection. I have a soft heart, a passionate soul, and a curious mind. I love classical music, good conversations, long walks, and the beauty of small moments. Life taught me to be strong, but I still dream about true love the kind that feels safe, deep, and joyful. If you're a caring and sincere man, maybe you're the one I was meant to find.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm looking for friends first and see where things go, i want to explore my kinks and experience new things too, serious men who really wanna meet and explore their kinks, dominate, submissive. I can switch. I have a nice fluffy ass too, HMU
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
I consider myself a warm-hearted woman with a relaxed and cheerful demeanor, always ready to embrace life's little moments with a smile.
Female (42) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a special woman for a special man. I am a woman who can create comfort. My partner will always be in a hurry to return home. And of course, I'm a real woman who loves kisses and hugs. I am a woman who will make you feel the real taste of this life! I am a loving, cozy and gentle woman who knows what a man really needs! It is important for me to have a cozy and happy atmosphere around me. Do you feel that I am the woman of your dreams?
Female (50) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
I don’t play about what I want, and I want someone who also doesn’t play about what I want. 😌😌 I stand 10 toes down on everything I say and I want to be pampered.💋 Message me for more
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
Open minded, silly and very blunt. Mainly going with the flow (don’t ask for pics I will block yah💋) My Minimum requirements are: worship. Anything less? Keep moving—I’m a brat so if you can’t tolerate it , don’t bother texting me. (If you want feet pics they won’t be for free💸)
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
If you’re not the type who shows initiative, don’t bother. I like things my way: a little attention, a little priority, and someone who doesn’t whine when I expect… extra. If you’re the kind who gets flustered trying to keep up and still offers that quiet little devotion, then maybe you won. I’m a domme, not into other doms no you won’t change that. I only like losers who fantasize about being humiliated and degraded and wish to worship the ground I walk on and kiss the bottom of my feet.
Female (20) Boston, Massachusetts
Shy, awkward over text even more awkward in person. Not looking for anything serious but would love to smoke and watch some scary movies. I’ve only been with women so I’m looking to explore, I don’t have experience with men so if you’re not into that we’re not compatible. New to kink but interested in being submissive and some other dynamics. if you’re patient and willing to guide hmu 5’1
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
silly puppygirl looking for an owner! i’m a film student and a huge nerd as well—a big fan of marvel, dc, star wars, and hannibal. say hi please!
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
new to the app, open to any type of connection. Submissive but I don’t have too much experience in it. Would love a d/s dynamic that’s more than a ons. Very much liberal:) Also looking for a women (around my age) to join a fwb fmf, age gap, dd/lg
Female (23) Boston, Massachusetts
Looking for new friends and connections to explore and hopefully meet down the line. I'm somewhat anxious so I'm easing into this gradually, keeping it on the app until I feel comfortable to open up.
Female (29) Boston, Massachusetts
im always a brat i like to roleplay through text i like dominant men but doesnt mean i wont mess with u to get u going 😈 i have kik i dont have Snapchat no more so dont ask im ok with long distance relationships
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
Beautiful, hard-working, resourceful degradee. She enjoys being called a worthless piece of trash wholeheartedly if you get the vibe (once the consent and relationship has been established). Needs a ‘motivator’ who can give her a lot of structure so she continues to break the habit of getting caught up in details, and who can also be empathetic and patient. She needs someone who approaches life with a sense of fun because she is a performing artist, world traveler, and social butterfly. She has achieved a master's degree in international development but left that to work for herself as a small business owner. She is in a life chapter of breaking away from a repressed mindset and some conservative values for women. She is currently under protection from a dom she doesn't play with but respects very much. She needs his blessing to engage in a dynamic, however he will not interfere with your orders once she agrees to submit. Being new to kink, she thinks she needs a partner who will work on the basic building blocks of a dynamic before eventually getting into more intense kinks, which at this time are somewhat undefined, but she would like to be rented out eventually if you can be so selfless. Turn on’s include handing over control which could look like you having her nudes and posting them. Body preferences: larger men since she is 5’6’ and likes to feel smaller. So ideally 5’11” and built out, ages 27-40. Communication skills are highly important as she likes to role-play and write. They are also important because she is coming from relationships where communication was manipulative, so she desires a dynamic where the norm set by the dom is explicit and direct, particularly for negotiations.
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
Kneel. You’ve just stepped into Goddess Amara’s world — where desire meets discipline, and submission becomes your sweetest addiction. I am the temptation you crave and the control you ***. You’ll learn quickly: pleasure is a privilege, not a right. 💄💋
Female (35) Boston, Massachusetts
Experienced lifestyle Domme accepting new subs. Don’t call Me Mistress🚫 I’m sadistic and love intense impact play. No online play- so live local to Boston and willing to travel to Me. My dynamics are based in denial so don’t message if you’re looking to hook up or get off. I require all subs to buy a drink/cover dinner/bring a gift. Be available to meet at least once a month in Boston. Only interested in talking to subs who educate themselves on kink and don’t just rely on 🌽 for kink education-know the basics like RACK SSC, FRIES, scene negotiations, aftercare, etc. Looking for subs who can host.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts
Dominant Female only interested in submissive men. if your not looking to be Played with honey don’t even waste time. must be over the age of 30 if not don’t even waste your time
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
Hey all, I’m Kandy Kiki! I’m just kinda exploring, learning, and healing right now due to some major life changes that has me rebuilding myself from scratch. Its a loooooong story. TBH - I am not sure what I want here. i know I am looking for conversation, education, talking shop, and exploration. I used to do role play professionally as a switch for some 18+ NSFW games. Due to my health though, I am a virtual girl right when (or if) I happen to be online.
Female (40) Boston, Massachusetts

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